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Breakdown of revenue for each year I have run my business full time
- 1st full time year $ 87,614.32
- 2nd full time year. $119,483.05
- 3rd full time year $155,924.16
- 4th full time year $192,606.22
- 5th full time year $264,936.31
In the last decade, I left full time TV to focus full time on my business.
When I took stock of my values (Adventure and freedom), I had no business being tethered to an anchor desk full time.
This year, I will surpass that number AND do my storytelling work with clients in Europe for 3 months of the year.
Here are the 4 steps I did to make it happen:
Step 1 Journaled daily
I committed to writing each day as part of my morning practice answering the question: What do I want? I started to notice patterns.
I wanted to slow down. I wanted to be calmer. And more than anything, I wanted to live in Europe at least 4 weeks of the year. So what needed to change?
Step 2 Built recurring revenue through a subscription model
For years, I did mindset work. Personal brand builds. 6-week public speaking masterclasses, large staged events, retreats.
One product or service would sell out and then I was marketing the next.
It was tiresome.
I had built a large community, but my business was always running in the red.
So I changed my business model.
I also began work with a coach whose business model mirrored mine, combining strategy with international destinations with clients.
My Mastermind service would combine the retreats, mindset work, the personal brand build, and culminate in a keynote in front of a live audience.
I 10xed my pricing and created recurring revenue.
Several clients left the community when the prices changed, but I anticipated that.
I was now clear about the demographics –and psychographics –of the client I served.
Step 3 I started research a year in advance
Doing public speaking work in another countries with clients is my unique selling point. In order to be successful with it,
- I start to seed the program a year in advance.
- I start to market the 2025 class curriculum in advance
- I start to market the 2025 retreat in advance.
At this time last year, I was in Paris and started to research the possibility of Nice as a retreat destination.
I settled on the workshops I would host.
I secured my Airbnb at a great rate during peak season in the French Riviera by booking it in a year in advance.
Some of my criteria for a retreat:
Direct flights: United and Delta fly direct. This is key when transporting retreat attendees across the Atlantic.
Short flight: Flight time is no more than 7 hours from New York.
Amenities: The destination is a city that has pharmacies, groceries, many options for lodging and is in a sexy, desirable location.
Step 4 Held the audience attention
This is the biggest muscle flex: Holding that attention (and tension) for the next six months as I begin interviewing candidates for the 2025 class of the Mastermind.
I will talk about my main product everyday in my content
I will start to nurture relationships through my newsletter, paid community, and content.
Masterminds are an excellent way to serve your clients if you’re in a service-based business.
“You did for me in 6 months, what I have been putting off for years,” my client said to me last year. That’s typically what I hear afterwards.



